"Who am I becoming?"

 

What follows is a summary of message delivered at the Journey Within event in Mississauga Canada on July 11, 2026. 


Key thoughts:


1. Focus on who you’re becoming, not just what you’re achieving.

  • Don’t measure life only by your possessions, job title, or success.
  • Ask yourself: “Who am I becoming?”
  • Character is more important than accomplishments.


2. Your energy shapes your experience.

  • High energy → optimism, creativity, and opportunities.
  • Low energy → doubt, fear, and negativity.
  • The circumstances may be the same, but your inner state changes how you experience them.


3. Prayer and meditation complement each other.

  • Prayer is when we speak to the Divine.
  • Meditation is when we become quiet enough to listen.
  • Both are important for spiritual growth.


4. Technology cannot replace humanity.

  • AI and technology can increase productivity.
  • But they cannot replace, love, kindness, presence, genuine human connection. These remain our greatest strengths.


5. Happiness comes from contribution, not accumulation.

  • A turning point in life is moving from “What can I get?” to “What can I give?”
  • Service (seva) naturally brings fulfillment.


6. Don’t only build your career—build yourself.

  • Many people spend years building businesses, wealth, and careers.
  • We often neglect building:

                * Wisdom

                * Compassion

                * Peace

                * Inner strength


7. The greatest success is becoming a better human being.

Some lessons won’t make you richer. They make you kinder, calmer, and wiser. Those lessons often have the greatest value.


These thoughts fit into one simple philosophy:

Live with high energy, meditate regularly, serve others, cultivate human values, and measure your life by the person you are becoming rather than by what you own or achieve.


“Who am I becoming?”


It’s a question that goes beyond career success or financial independence. You're asking whether each year you’re becoming more peaceful, more compassionate, and more joyful.

Desire vs intention

 

There is a difference between a desire and an intention. All work happens through intention. Your intend is - I want to go somewhere and you go. All life moves with intentions.


If I don’t have an intention to raise my hand, it will not raise. If I don’t have an intention to take the rose, I will not take it. All work happens through intention. Desire is that intention turning into a feverish thought in you. A desire is a thought with feverishness coming in you again and again, again and again, again and again.


That shakes the whole nervous system. Desire brings a dis-ease in the mind, an obsession in the mind. It clouds the clarity of mind. It brings feverishness and it burns you. It leaves you with scars and wounds. Every frustration, every desire has caused scars in the nervous system, and you are not even aware of it. 


The first time you become aware of it, you say "Oh, there are a lot of thing here I have done to myself" then you clear it up. When Buddha said, “Desire is the cause of sorrow”, He meant have nothing but good intention.