Break through all your barriers and feel that you are blessed. This is the one and only step you have to take, the rest will all happen.
This deep sense of feeling that “I’m blessed” can help you overcome all obstacles in life. You receive courage and confidence, and you will open up for grace to pour in. Once you realise that you are blessed, then all complaints disappear, all grumbling vanishes, all insecurities evaporate. The sense of feeling unloved dissolves, and you stop wanting love. If you do not realise you are blessed, then doership begins. To make a difference in your life, feel you are blessed.
Especially for those on this path of knowledge, there is every reason for you to feel blessed. Feel you are blessed. This is the first step towards the self.